These exciting techniques can be just as powerful for the man because different positions stimulate different parts of his penis and also put different degrees of pressure on it. Do you have any suggestions on what could work? Different people enjoy different positions and different things sexually. Its all about ur partner, if you have a great partner then libido never goes down!! I know in kamasutra the name of the sex position is the double decker but what do you call it? So, for example, if you're trying out woman on top sex, and you're the woman, don't just lunge up and down on his penis without checking with him if he'd prefer a slower, more gentle movement! Can you suggest positions that would be comfortable for him but that would give me something?
Great to hear Krista, let me know how you get on Sean.
The best thing to do is to talk to him so that he understands where you are coming from. This isn't a case of him shifting you about - it's more about him gently encouraging you in which way to go and how to move. But there is more than one way to do the sixty nine with your man. Avoiding awkwardness is key here. A successful and enjoyable sexual encounter depends on many factors. Obviously sex will last longer if there is less pressure on the man's penis, as there will be when she keeps her legs further apart: